ok it's now later in the month and many things have gone on in between here and the last post. so i did talk to john and he is going to "hook" me up with a member of the congeration that is gay and an ordanied minster. i know of her and have kind of had conversation with her that consitited of hi how are you fine thanks you? and good adn her either walking away or starting up another conversation with someone near by leaving me hanging. so i have not called her because she has not been in church here recently. i figure that i could call her and talk to her after the holidays. so i have a new necklace that has two charms on it one is a triple cross and the other is a rainbow with the words follow your dreams. i love them. ^^ so happy that i can wear a rainbow that is not large and very obvious of what it is and why it is. ha ha. lol.